Masturbation is totally normal and natural, but using sex toys can take your solo sessions to the next level. There are many masturbation tools available, ranging from dildos to be inserted to clitoral vibrationators.
It’s also a great way to discover your own pleasure. “Edging” (coming close to orgasm, backing off, then building up again) is a great way to experience new turns-ons.
Hands
Masturbation occurs naturally and is part of a normal sexual experience. It has many documented health benefits, including reducing stress and improving sleep. It also increases pleasure during intercourse and can help relieve pain. Masturbation can be done with a variety of objects, including the hands, fingers and sex toys. Some people use household items as masturbation instruments. They are safe and cost-free.
Hands are a great option for newbies to masturbate with, as they are not intimidating and can be used no matter what type of genitals one has. These hands are perfect for those who do not have partners and wish to masturbate by themselves. For some, the hands are even more satisfying that a sexy toy.
Shower heads are another common masturbation device, as they allow a person stimulate their nipples or external orifices. However, a few safety and comfort considerations should be taken into account. A person should never aim the water stream inside the vagina, but only at the outer part of the genitals. The friction caused by soapy hands can also cause irritation. The water temperature should also be lukewarm and not scalding.
There are sexy toys designed specifically for hand sex, such as the Helping Hand, from Bedroom Kandi. It has a textured texture and multiple ticklers. Another example is the rubber finger which can add a little extra thrill to hand masturbation. You can also try different positions when masturbating, which will produce different sensations. This may even lead to an orgasm.
Sex Toys
While sex toy aren’t required for masturbation they can add excitement and variation to your pleasure routine. They can also boost your orgasms, and give you more confidence in your body. Sex toys come in many shapes and sizes. From mini vibrators small enough to fit in your hand to larger ones like the Fleshlight Quickshot that can be used multiple times. Some male strokers have two ends, one with a vagina and the other with a penis. Some can be controlled remotely via an app.
You can find sex toys to masturbate in unexpected places, such as your showerhead. This tool is discreet, easy to use and a great way for you to up your masturbation without having to go to an adult store. (Many cities have laws prohibiting such stores to be located in the city.) If you do not have a showerhead, or if you do not want to put anything in your mouth while masturbating, you can use a plastic bottle that has a thin cap. Just make sure you are using lubricant, and a Condom.
Another household item that can be used as a sex toy is a toilet plunger, especially the kind with a clear handle. This option is not as discreet as the Fleshlight sleeves or masturbation eggs, but can still be a great kink for some people. Some users say it feels like a Dildo while others claim the sensation is too rough for them.
Try a sex dolly torso for a sex toy that is a little more premium. These aren’t as portable as a masturbation egg but can be easily packed in your luggage and have an amazing, realistic feel to them that is sure to delight you. Some sex doll torsos can also be slid on to your cock for additional exploration and even have an internal vagina for more orgasms.
Vibrators
Whether you’re looking to take your masturbation game up a notch or just want to try something new, vibrators are an easy and fun way to explore your sexual pleasures. They’re designed with different body parts in mind so that you can choose the one that feels best for you. Some are small enough to fit in the vagina while others are designed for clitoral stimulation. Some vibrate to music, creating an extra sense of eroticism.
There are a few important things to know before you get started with a vibrator. You’ll want to make sure it is safe for you to insert in your genitals. This means that there should be no sharp objects, such as scissors or nail files, or anything with many holes or splinters, like a hairbrush handle. It should also be made out of a soft, flexible material such as silicone. Use a lubricant that will reduce friction, and keep you comfortable.
Strokers, sleeves, and rings are some of the most common types of masturbation toys. Strokers are long, cylindrical masturbation toys that you can slide onto your clitoris and then move to get the sensation that you want. The sleeves are similar, except they’re shorter and thicker. These sleeves are great for people who have trouble reaching climax using their fingers alone. You can find sleeves with different textures to add extra sensation, and some even have suction or vibrate.
The coronavirus pandemic in 2020 gave many women a taste of solo sex for the first time, which sparked more interest in masturbation. As a result, the sex toy industry saw a surge in sales, which has helped normalize and legitimize self-pleasure. A recent study found that masturbation can improve mental health, thanks to the mood-boosting hormones it releases.
If you’re a woman new to anal exploration, check out this article for tips and toys that will make the experience as pleasurable as possible. Try a strap-on vibration to get the feeling of penetration without anyone else around. Whatever toy you choose, always listen to your body.
Lubricants
Most sexies carry a small amount of lube with them. Some of it is on hand and some is purchased to add a little extra grip when getting intimate. But lube doesn’t just make sex more enjoyable; it also makes masturbation a lot more fun. It reduces friction, so that skin (and toys), glide more smoothly. It allows a wide variety of motions and methods, such as strokers, butt syringes, and the like. It can also help you reach an entirely new level of climax.
You can use a variety of lubricants, including Bengay and cornstarch (but don’t forget cornstarch). It’s best to use lubricant that is specific for your purpose. It won’t make your hands sticky or dried out, and it will last longer and feel sexier than, for example, a smear vaseline. Plus, it is better for your health than using a dirty teaspoon.
This one, from the luxury sex toys brand Lelo, is silky and slick and infused with aloe vera to hydrate your toys. It won’t discolor or stain them. The sleek bottle will also make you want to display it for everyone to admire.
If you prefer something a little more spicy, Roam offers lubricants in flavors like raspberry, pear and mango. It’s also made with a mixture of organic oils and Butters, so you won’t get a sticky feeling or a strange aftertaste.
Masturbation can be a healthy and fun way to explore your own body, whether you are just starting out or a seasoned professional who wants to increase the pleasure. These tips, toys and tricks will make masturbation more fun than ever.